Saturday, September 20, 2008

Beautiful Pavilion, But There's No Place Like Home






Addie seemed to be feeling much better today, and she slept very well last night. Today we visited the Tengwang Pavilion which was built during the Tan Dynasty in 653 A.D. This nine story pavilion perched on the banks of the Gan River is very beautiful, and the detailed paintings are impressive. The Gan River itself is terribly polluted, and our outing today proved to be an experience in handling smells which we are not in any way used to. Today everywhere we went we were stopped, and people would swarm around the baby. We had no idea what they were saying, but our guide would translate much of it for us. They wanted to know where she would live when we returned to the United States. Younger people asked why if I already had one girl would I want another. Other people actually thanked us for giving an orphan a home. One thing I quickly noticed was that I was being scolded in some way by older Chinese women. I had to ask what they were saying. When I found out I was shocked. They felt she would catch cold because she was so scantily dressed. Imagine this, as today was 92 degrees and humid. I had trouble moving because my clothes clung to my sweaty body. To battle the heat, Bayley decided to be like the locals who use umbrellas not for rain but for shade. Nevertheless, our guide explained that traditional Chinese culture believes babies under two should be bundled regardless of the temperature.

After visiting the pavilion, we went to a large local market with no set prices. Bayley really enjoyed this, and our wonderful guide Echo helped with the bartering. Bayley found some great Chinese fans, and I decided to honor the older Chinese women by buying some leggings to go with Addie's summer dresses for when we are out and about in the next few days. This part of the market was very enjoyable. A bit different and maybe not to our liking was the food section. The open air food sales of beef and soup would not measure up to health standards we expect at home. Luckily we had a late buffet breakfast at the hotel, so we weren't hungry anyway.

Addie had lots of fun today. I do not think she had ever touched grass before. At the pavilion garden she kept looking at it and lurching forward in her carriage to touch it. When I placed a bunch in her hands, she was thrilled with the strange green matter. She is definitely teething and just about chewed the strap off my pocketbook. When I tried to redirect her to a more sanitary teething toy, she lunged at my hand, and I got quite a bite. Beware brothers!! Since then she has inhaled several Gerber Biter biscuits. Another thing that she likes is tea. Just like her brothers and sister, this girl likes to slurp warm tea with a bit (quite a bit) of sugar. With all of the sugar intake today, Bayley worried that we should snap to it in terms of her dental hygiene, so we found the baby toothbrush we had packed. We tried to brush her teeth, but were met with growl sounds. She did manage just fine when we let her handle it herself. I dare say she may be developing an independent streak already. Only two more days and we head to the very southern city of Guangzhou where we will stay for the last three days of our journey, and then HOME. If only I had some ruby red slippers right now -"There's no place like home!"

12 comments:

The Gang's Momma! said...

What a great day you've had! We are so happy to read another great report.

Stuck close to "home" today, and Aidan is doing better this afternoon. We're gonna try to do the TerraCotta Museum tomorrow. I can't wait to spend Monday packing and get out of dodge on Tuesday. Please promise me that our rooms will be sorta close together and that we can eat greasy American burgers at Lucy's :)

Our guide has spent much of the past couple days trying to tell that Aidan isn't dressed enough, despite the sweaty head she sports all day long. And on the phone this a.m. she had the nerve to tell me to keep her dressed warm, stay out of the pool and stop giving her cold drinks. Grrrr.

Paula Ray said...

Of course you keep babies bundled up. My mother will love that.We all know how good little bits of tea can be for the belly.Bay, how much sugar did you put in it??I am so glad that Addie is getting to experience many "firsts".We wish it could be here in this country! Only a few more more days. Her first flight will be coming up and perhaps it will give you a clue as to how she will handle the long plane trip across the ocean.Can't wait to hug you all!! P.S. She looks like a serious toothbrusher to me! Love,Mom

gary ray said...

Glad to see the pictures each day. She is a cutie. Can't wait till all our girls are home. A green tea drinker. Takes after me! The boys are holding up. Tom stays busy with Alicia and Jo-Jo enjoys his routine. We may all do the Common Ground Fair today. Can't wait for your return. Love,Dad.

JRAY said...

Happy to hear all of the good news today. Sound to me like she is going to fit right in with all of the rest of the family.

Bay - I can just see you now trying to buy things at lower prices than the people were asking. I bet that was really fun for you. I know I would have enjoyed it.

Take Care

NSJ said...

Sounds like you had a great day. Funny how I was thinking about Jeremy when I read about the market! Bayley you are such a little entrepreneur like your uncle, I bet you got some good deals.

Glad to read that Addie slept better. I know you and Bay can run on little or no sleep, but it's eventually going to catch up with you. I'm amazed about the grass. Who would have thought? There will be so many neat firsts for her that you will get to share. We take so much for granted.

Only a few more days....hang in there. Those ruby slippers will seem like they really worked.

Love and miss you,
Nicki, Todd, Brynn, & Myah

PS - I can't believe you had to be told to keep that baby bundles up!

Unknown said...

Addie,
There will be so many strange things you will see in America like cats, dogs, Baby Louis, and even blue jays perched in a tree! I know you will like camp because there are baby turtles there and they bring good luck in China. Even though people don't believe in dragons like you do, I know that you will find some great things once you get to America. I can't wait to see you.

Very truly yours,
Tommy

jenw said...

Good morning Brittany & Bayley & Addie Mei,

Oh it's so good to see that she is getting used to both of you & some of our American ways. I know that she will be a fast learner. Lots like whatever she is doing with the green object in the one of the photos is involving some good fine motor play. She looks like she is concentrating so much. I loved seeing her brushing her teeth...I see a new Grow With Us baby coming our way...in turn more toothbrushes, coming your way!

I am currently at Cody's. He has just had 4 impacted wisdom teeth removed yesterday & is doing incredibly well....you never know!

I have continued to check your webpage daily to see how it's going. Glad that she is feeling better & what a scary thing with the formula.

Take good care & know that we're all rooting for you & that the journey home will be here before you know it...just like the long wait that felt that it would never get here!

Lots of love to all,

Jen & family

Unknown said...

Hi guys,
Awesome pictures of the scenery in China! What a great experience you are all having. Addie is looking so much happier and relaxed with each day's pictures. It doesn't seem surprising anymore to see her with a little on her face. Glad to hear that she is settling in so well. Bayley is just like her mom...loves those deals!! It's funny that you are wishing for some ruby red slippers....the high school drama production in November is going to be the Wizard of Oz and the cast was chosen just this week!! Can't wait to see you all soon.

Love,
Mary

Alicia said...

It's so great to see Addie smiling...She has changed so much in just these past few days! Tom and I watched movies for most of the night, we even found a Spongebob movie that he had never seen...imagine that! Today we are off apple picking and preparing for your homecoming! We are going to China Hill for lunch and Tommy insists that he use chop sticks and that there not even be silverware at his place setting! Only a short time until those slippers really will take you home!
-Alicia-

PS: Tommy had AMAZING behavior at school yesterday...I was told that it's been his best day at school since it started!

The Ashbys said...

The tea drinking runs in the family - grammie smith was a big tea drinker so she would have been very proud that her new granddaughter already had a taste for the finer things in life

Kassidy said...

you look like you guys are having a fun time in china! but i bet you cant wait until you come home. i love the picture of addie with the toothbrush in her mouth! its really cute! we are all kinda worried about you guys, and we are worried about stockten (bayley calls him stiffy) he hasnt come yet, he was out all night last night, and we are very worried, anyway, cant wait to see you when you get back, its going to be very nice to see all of you again,

love YOU (;

Gay said...

A quick audiological tip from Gay. You probably already know this, but when ascending and descending in the planes hopefully Addie will drink, thereby helping to keep her eustachian tubes open to prevent pain. Departure and runway times are so unpredictable, but if you can hold off w/ the bottle until you actually take off and start to descend, it may be helpful. Bon Voyage! Cheers from Gay